Saturday, April 16, 2011

Ah, the beach!

Beach trips are probably our favorite thing in the world to do. We make as many trips as possible to the 30A stretch of beaches every summer. But this year, we just couldn't wait for summer, so we headed south for spring break: Sarasota. It was a great trip. We pet rays, saw a disgusting giant squid, and talked to sea turtles at a research aquarium; toured a bird rescue center where they had a dozen storks with wooden legs; marveled at all the odd and beautiful tropical plants at the botanical gardens; and, of course, played at the beach and enjoyed the lazy evenings of a beach town. It was a fun destination and a relaxing break from the day-to-day of school, work, and keeping a family on track. We're hoping the kids will decide to go to college there (New College of Florida!) so we'll have an excuse to visit all the time.


Friday, April 15, 2011

Play ball!

Hawthorne's favorite season is spring. He doesn't really care about the return of the birds and flowers and warm weather. Baseball is what he's pumped about. He L-O-V-E-S, loves going to the Seminole baseball games with his dad, and now that his own baseball season has started, it's all we can do to get him to stop miming pitches to sit down to dinner. The boy has passion.

His team on the other hand, doesn't have near the passion necessary to actually be good at the game. The silver lining of this is that Hawthorne gets to be the star. He has made some pretty outs from the infield, and his pitching was objectively impressive last week for his first time on the mound. His joy on the diamond fills me with joy—and pride, but of course his time on the mound fills me with fear. He is so much calmer than I am when he's out there. I pace and pray to the baseball spirits that he doesn't get hit and doesn't screw up and get upset. So far, so good.


First at bat of the season, on his way to 3rd.

First night on the mound. Walked three, struck out three. I still think the ump was calling that strike zone damn close!
Expert commentary from his dad: "He showed great poise and composure in overcoming shoddy defense behind him and an umpire that appeared to have vision problems."

Making an out at 3rd base.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Do you believe in magic?

On the way to piano yesterday Ainsley asked me if I believe in magic. And of course the answer was yes. Who doesn't want to believe in magic? I certainly want her to for as long as possible, so I'm not confessing.

Then she asked, "Mom, are you the Easter Bunny."

"No," I replied. "Why?"

"I don't know," she said thoughtfully. "All those things coming into our house is just weird."

She's right, and I imagine she'll be the first child to point out the crazy unbelievability of it all. She did mention that the Easter Bunny doesn't hide the eggs at her friend Sadie's house but he does hide them at our house and that seems strange.

My lame response: "Maybe he thinks that Sadie doesn't like hunting for eggs."

In some ways, I want to come clean. I want to quit lying. We're usually really honest with the kids. Probably too honest—except for the whole Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny, Santa Claus thing. I didn't want to spoil the magic for the kids, so I have my fingers crossed that when they find out it's all just a big fat lie, they'll still trust that when I say they aren't getting a shot at the doctor, they really aren't getting a shot. And when I tell them that they are safe in our house, they'll believe me. And when they're teenagers and I tell them that I remember how hard it is to be a teenager, they'll know that I really do understand where they're coming from.

She's growing up quickly though. And these things are on her mind. She really doesn't believe in magic, so it's just a matter of time before she doesn't believe in mythical creatures. She mentioned a few days ago that it's weird how nature exists but everything else is created by people. And she has declared that she doesn't believe in God. (Don't ask me why I have to be so honest about my feelings on God but I'm still filling Easter baskets and Christmas stockings and trading teeth for gold coins sprinkled with glitter.)

It is all so very very weird, but fun while the faith holds.

 


Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Super Moon

On Sunday night—I think it was Sunday—me and the kids drove over to the lake to watch the super moon rise. It was impressive, but mainly it was fun seeing the kids' reaction. Ainsley leaped in circles through the field, singing that she was floating in space, dancing among the stars. Hawthorne talked about the shade of orange, the size of the craters, how quickly it was rising centimeter by centimeter (I keep telling him this is the United States and he's supposed to measure in inches, not centimeters!), and how the geese were probably nervous. Then they both bemoaned forgetting the camera since their dad wasn't there to see the moon.

I don't know where the time has gone lately. Hawthorne, Ains, and I were sitting at the computer yesterday looking at all their childhood pictures, and I just couldn't wrap my brain around it all. They change so quickly, but they are constantly such themselves. Hawthorne celebrated his 9th birthday a few weeks ago. We took donuts to his class for his big day. For his party, we took a few friends to a local wildlife rescue center to visit the animals they were taking care of and get a behind-the-scenes tour. We saw baby-baby squirrels and rabbits, hawks, owls, a huge stinky black pig, raccoons, deer, turtles, snakes, and possums. The kids' favorite was the resident red shoulder hawk that posed for a picture and talked to them before we left. He was pretty cool. Hawthorne was very into Legos for this birthday. He can't get enough of them. (I might have to let the Easter Bunny know that the passion hasn't died down.) He was especially excited to have his Granna Di and Pappa John here to ring in his new year. I wonder if it's as weird to them as it is to me to think about his entrance into this world nine years ago.

 



Ainsley is on the verge of her 7th birthday. Oh, my baby girl. She promises that she'll stay my baby girl forever. I'll remind her if she ever forgets! She's counting down the days until the pool opens and trying not to be too annoyed that Hawthorne wants to play baseball every waking second instead of playing with her. Maybe she just needs to learn how to throw a ball. I'm thinking that as coordinated as she is on the dance floor that the soccer field might be more her speed than the baseball field. There's still potential for the tennis court, but she'd probably get lonely playing singles!

Carter has big news. He has been selected to be the graduate director starting in the fall. It's a prestigious position and one he'll of course excel at and love. I'm proud, proud, proud. I love that he spends so much time being a devoted dad and husband and is still one of the top criminologists in the country and so respected by his colleagues. That's my man.

We're headed to Sarasota later this week for the kids' spring break. There's no doubt we're rushing a beach trip. It's still not hot here, but we just can't help ourselves. We all miss the beach! Even Ains who absolutely hated it the first several times she went. Thank goodness that didn't stick.

Oh, there's so much more to fill you in on. It has been too long. But I'm so, so tired. All these conditioning and Zumba classes are kicking by butt. At least it looks better though.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Friendship.

We just celebrated birthdays for one of my good friend's daughters. Their birthdays always make me thankful for her friendship. I've known her since her 5 year old was just a little baby bump under her neatly coordinated maternity clothes. Her oldest and Ainsley took a music class together, and Michelle asked for my phone number the last day of class. Then, she was kind enough to actually call me. And we've been friends ever since. I'm very appreciative of this friendship and the others that I've managed to hold on to for many, many years. It's amazing that y'all put up with me. I'm moody, opinionated, and leave my cell phone in my trunk, messages unanswered, for days at a time. I'm a seriously high-maintenance wife, but I'm pretty sure I'm a low maintenance friend. I'm guessing that and how easy it is to make me laugh, makes y'all hang in there. But just in case you need some more motivation, I'll share my newest beauty obsessions. Loreal Infallible lipstick in Rambling Rose, Mary Kay Ultimate Mascara, Maybelline New York Dream Matte Mousse Foundation, and Boots No 7 Rebalancing Day Gel. They're all awesome. Run out and buy them. If you need a Tallahassee Mary Kay connection, I have a friend who can hook you up. And if you want to laugh as hard as I do, record The New Adventures of Old Christine. That is the funniest TV show EVER. When they cancel it, I'm going to cry. See, laughing and crying in just two sentences. Thank you for still being my friend!

Friday, January 28, 2011

Ainsley's second trip to the ER

When Ainsley was about 1 and 1/2 she loved climbing over the arm of the sofa. I mean L-O-V-E-D, loved. She would spend hours pulling herself up and over it, giggling, climbing off the front, and heading back up the side. One morning, she fell off. I heard the thud from the kitchen. Then nothing. I ran in to scoop up her silent body. She wasn't breathing, wouldn't look at me. Then half of her body went stiff and the other half started convulsing. I ran with her to the phone to call 911 and my mom screamed for my dad. Then, Ainsley started crying. And I started crying. Our house filled with tall, strong men, pouring off of trucks with sirens. By the time we got to the ER, she seemed totally herself. And after checking for blood in her ears and doing a CT and EEG, the doctor gave us the all clear. Then my dad told me she was really OK, and I was OK.

When I met the kids in the library after school yesterday, Ains told me her tummy hurt. Half way through her reading test, she said her tummy really hurt. So all moms know what a tummy ache during a reading test means. Nothing. But by the time we were headed home, she was complaining about pains in her left side. Assuming she wasn't born with her appendix on the wrong side, I got her home, took her temp, sat her on the couch, and handed her a bowl of blueberries and some green tea. No fever. Gas pains I thought. An hour later, I noticed she was holding her side and her breath. So of course I called my dad. He said call the doctor. At 4:45, they sent me to Urgent Care, who scheduled a 7:45 appointment and told me to call the Tallahassee Hospital Urgent Care, who told me they don't take abdominal pain and sent me to the ER. I packed up Hawthorne, homework, books, magazines, and my emergency cash stash, and headed to the ER. An hour into the ER visit, Ainsley says, "My stomach doesn't hurt anymore. Can we go get Mexican food." Sigh.

That trip was so much better.



Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Happy 2011.

Is it just me or does the female football coach on Glee look a hell of a lot like Matthew McConaughey?! I giggle a little every time I see her. Glee is my new show. Love it! I so wish I could share it with Ainsley, but she'll have to stick with Victorious for now because the Glee content is so not appropriate for anyone remotely close to her age. Mainly, I love the music scenes. I'm a sucker for the power of a group performance. It doesn't even have to be music; I love scenes in cop shows where the cops are all walking in a line looking all tough. There's power in numbers that I seem to get a kick out of. I really hope both of the kids play a team sport or are in the band or orchestra or dance group... anything where they can feel the rhythm of the group. I miss that some times, so I'll have to live vicariously.

They're both actually participating in such things now. Hawthorne started basketball last week, and Ainsley's piano and dance classes started this week. She's taking a jazz/hip hop class that she's super pumped about.The activities sometimes keep us a little busier in the afternoon than I'd like to be, but it's worth it. Of course I didn't feel that way so much when Hawthorne and I were at the kitchen table this morning finishing a Costa Rica project that's due today. This is a project that we've spent hours on at home, and it's supposed to be a "school" project. Never assigned for homework. When did third grade get so complicated?!

I'll write about Christmas and remodeling later; gotta get to my Wednesday conditioning class. I'm determined to get in shape before I turn 40. I'm not aiming for marathon or string bikini shape, just everything toned and limber enough so that my body doesn't feel like I'm 40 when I get out of bed in the morning.

Happy New Year!